5 years make the difference between their ages. He was 20
and she was 15. He has just graduated from university, while she was still in
high school. Although they loved each other so much, they did not express their
affection in the same way. Like any brother and sister, they argued constantly.
But, they shared something in common. They have always looked after each other.
Their relationship when they were young was not very good.
They used to quarrel and fight all the time. They did not care for each other
and did not share anything except that they lived in the same home. He wanted to
live his life on his own without any responsibilities towards his sister. She
needed her brother’s attention. Yet when she did, they fought on very simple
things.
When they grew up, they saw each other differently. They
began to understand and consider the importance of having a brother or a
sister. They have also understood the responsibility that they had towards each
other. They were flexible in their relationship with each other. He saw that he
is the bigger brother, so he had to protect and take care of his younger
sister. She looked to her brother as someone who is caring and loving to her.
One day, he was getting married. The wedding party was
amazing and beautiful. Everyone was there. His friends, family and close ones.
He was busy entertaining the crowd who came to see him getting married.
However, his sister came close to him. She was wearing an attractive silver
dress which he bought for her a day before the wedding party. She said “I want
to talk to you.” He responded “Is there something wrong, my dear?” She said “No,
but it is something important and we need to discuss it now, please.” He looked
confused. Yet, he said “Ok dear,” and he followed her into a nearby room.
He was very curious. He was interested in what she was about
to say to him. It was not of her nature to discuss anything with him. She felt
very shy and confused. She said “Brother, I want to tell you something, something
that I have been hesitant to say to you.” “What dear?” He was worried when he
asked her. She said “I would like to apologise to you.” He asked again “For
what?” She said “On not being a good sister to you, or at least not to your
expectations.” He felt surprising and sudden relief taking him over and finally
exclaimed “So am I my dear.”
She was puzzled. She was the one to make the confession. She
was the one to apologise without any response back. On the other hand, he felt
an obligation to say that he was sorry too. They were both willing in expressing
their feelings. She said “Why are you apologising? You did nothing wrong.” He
responded back by saying “No! There were things that I could have done better
towards you as my sister.” She said “So tell me then.”
He continued “Well for example, I was not there when you wanted
to talk to me when we were young. I know you needed me as a big brother, but I
was too selfish and self-involved. All I ever wanted was to play around and
have fun. But I should have taken care of you, dear.”
She looked shocked, but then said “Well.. You are right. I
needed your help when we were young. But that is the past and it cannot be
changed. Besides, when we grew up you have been beside me all the time giving
me advice.” He responded by saying “I had to my dear. Our father had passed
away when I was 16. So I felt committed to be your role model, especially that
our mother could not help us due to her illness.” She said “So what you are saying
is that you felt obligated to help me? That you were forced to?” He rapidly
said “You do not understand. I...” She quickly interrupted him and said “Well
that is what you are saying right now. Had our father been alive, you would
still be distant from me without any relationship combining us. But as we are
siblings, you were forced to."
He finally sighed and said “What did you expect? I was a
professional football player playing in the greatest clubs of the country. I
was going to be a star. But when my father died, all of my dreams were gone. I
had to take care of you and our mother” She looked amazed when she exclaimed “What
do you mean? You preferred to stay in your career rather than looking after
your own family? I cannot believe what you have just said”. Before she began
this conversation with her brother, she thought it would end in a different
manner. A moment of silence had passed before he continued “Look dear. All I
wanted was for everything to be normal. But I could not do that.”
They kept staring at each other for a long time. He then said “Are you calmed down now?” She answered
back, rather loudly “After all these years you come and say that protecting
your family was not your first choice, and you expect me to calm down?” She
felt dizzy and weakened after what she had heard from him. She sat on a nearby
couch to regain her strength.
He said “My dear, do not be angry. We are brother and sister
now like you had hoped. Besides, your final exams are coming soon. It is
important for you to be focused.” She then said “How am I supposed to focus on
anything after what you have just said? How am I supposed to trust you after
what just happened?” He followed by saying “Can’t we just postpone this talk
after the wedding party so we can talk freely?” She screamed at him “You prefer
to go to your wedding party over solving your responsibility problems towards
your sister?” He said “Do not take it this way”. At the precise moment he said
those words, she fainted. She fell on the floor. He was shocked by what just
happened. He rushed out of the room to bring in a multitude of his guest
friends who work as doctors. He hoped that it would not be serious. He then,
with the help of his friends, took his sister to the nearest hospital.
He waited outside her room. He was worried about her. His
relationship with his sister is not good at all right now. Moreover, her
illness might cause difficulty for them to get along well again. He kept
waiting for countless hours outside the room, waiting for her to wake up. But
he did not know what was wrong with her. After a while, a doctor approached
him. The doctor asked him “Are you a relative?” He responded “Yes. I am her
brother.” The doctor said “Well, do not worry. She is fine. She was just very
weak and ill and this caused her to faint. Nothing serious.”
He then asked the doctor “When will she be able to get out?”
The doctor said “She can go out in one week. She has to take certain medications
that are necessary for her recovery.” He then said “Thank you, doctor”. He sat
down, thinking about what had happened. It all began when his sister wanted to
apologise. But then, he found himself apologising to her. He now feels
responsible for what his sister is currently in. His sister did not have to
suffer like that. Now it is up to him to make things right again. It was his responsibility
to straighten things out between them.
He entered her room slowly so as not to wake her up. He was hurried
in his steps yet very quiet. He approached her bed and planted a kiss on her
forehead. She then very slowly and tiredly lifted up her eyelids. She looked
very sick and weak. He looked at her with brotherly affection and love. She
smiled when she saw him next to her. They kept looking at each other for what
seemed like forever. He was getting out of the room to let her have some sleep.
But then she said “Brother?” He turned around and faced her and said “Yes,
dear?” She said “I am sorry for ruining your wedding party”. He came next to
her and looked deep in her eyes and said “My love... It would not have been a party
without you.” They both smiled.